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Had someone of the same sex who I hooked up with drunk multiple times over years we were freinds and i had a massive drinking problem i would blackout multiple times a week and sometiomes get taken advantage of ... prob ab 10 times in 5 years of being friends.. he is manipulative af and using it as blackmail ....I dont really identify as bi and noone really knows some ppl do but should i just come out bi .... It would get this dude off my back

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2017 4:18 PM EST



Where's the blackmail part come in? It's not like you willingly said you will have sex with him. He simply took advantage of you during your blackouts. If anything, he's gay for doing that. Not you. You were too wasted to know. So if anybody calls you gay over that, then they're the stupid ones. Turn all his friends against him. Record him talking to you saying things involving that he took advantage of someone intoxicated. Share it with everyone. People will think twice associating with him.

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2017 4:31 PM EST
as long as it wouldn't have terrible effects on your life, but bi sounds a lot subtler than gay so I say go ahead! The guy sounds like an utter twat anyway so best to get rid of him as soon as

FRANCE / OCT 11, 2017 4:26 PM EST
as long as it wouldn't have terrible effects on your life, but bi sounds a lot subtler than gay so I say go ahead! The guy sounds like an utter twat anyway so best to get rid of him as soon as

FRANCE / OCT 11, 2017 4:26 PM EST
as long as it wouldn't have terrible effects on your life, but bi sounds a lot subtler than gay so I say go ahead! The guy sounds like an utter twat anyway so best to get rid of him as soon as

FRANCE / OCT 11, 2017 4:26 PM EST
as long as it wouldn't have terrible effects on your life, but bi sounds a lot subtler than gay so I say go ahead! The guy sounds like an utter twat anyway so best to get rid of him as soon as

FRANCE / OCT 11, 2017 4:26 PM EST
as long as it wouldn't have terrible effects on your life, but bi sounds a lot subtler than gay so I say go ahead! The guy sounds like an utter twat anyway so best to get rid of him as soon as

FRANCE / OCT 11, 2017 4:26 PM EST