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Hi!There is one guy,I know him for 4yrs.We alwys spent time together.2yrs ago I started having feelings 4him.I didn’t know how to tell him,I wasn’t sure if he felt the same.There was alwys spark btwn us.So I tried to write him how i feel.Then I erased all.Repeatedly.I was afraid to lose him.Last month I was outta country,went to visit mom.He was the whole 4yrs single.I came back,went out w friends,he came w new gf.I hope she’s good enough 4 him.What should I do?

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I know it should be simple to just tell him.. But I can’t

FRANCE / OCT 1, 2018 4:57 PM EST
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FRANCE / OCT 1, 2018 10:14 AM EST
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UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 8:01 AM EST
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UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 8:00 AM EST
Part-4] .. 1.2 if you try a letter it should be a bit detached... like "I guess it took your new relationship to say what I should have said years ago"... even if he has feelings for you . in trying to win him. DO NOT MAKE HER THE LOSER... basic 1960s hippie life lesson: "true, emotionally healthy love can not last, if built on a foundation of stealing someone's affections

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 7:13 AM EST
Part-4] .. 1.1 ... your letter should say the things youbwanted to ... but don't try guilt AND do not try the "I can be so s3xy for you"... no guilt and no seduction. By the way... he doesn't sound like the type of man who could be manipulated like that anyway

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:42 AM EST
Part-4] .. your options are 1) "The letter approach" you write a letter... do not, I repeat, DO NOT attempt an emotional blackmailscheme [winning him by making him feel guilt about your sadness] is a bad ploy

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:40 AM EST
Part-4] .. your options are 1) "The letter approach" you write a letter... do not, I repeat, DO NOT attempt an emotional blackmailscheme [winning him by making him feel guilt about your sadness] is a bad ploy

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:40 AM EST
Part-3] .. tree carefully. If you try to break them up... that could really back fire and you lose him as both friend and potential bf. So you have 2 approaches... neither us ideal.. there's risk with each

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:36 AM EST
Part 2] obviously I don't need to say "you probably should have let him know sooner". But... as long as they're not married (to each other) ... then you still have a legitimate, ethical, not wrong chance to win him back.

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:34 AM EST
[Part-1] ... . On the 1/10th of 1% probability,t your question & situation are genuine and not another justcurious routine... then see my answers in part2 & 3

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:31 AM EST
[Part-1] ... . On the 1/10th of 1% probability,t your question & situation are genuine and not another justcurious routine... then see my answers in part2 & 3

UNITED STATES / OCT 1, 2018 6:31 AM EST