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how do u let go of someone?

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 8:06 PM EST



Hmm..

UNITED STATES / MAY 20, 2017 8:05 PM EST
Hmm..

UNITED STATES / MAY 20, 2017 8:05 PM EST
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UNITED STATES / MAY 20, 2017 6:49 PM EST
It's difficult. It depends in what circumstance. Perhaps cutting contact and placing your mind somewhere else.

UNITED STATES / MAY 20, 2017 4:25 PM EST


UNITED STATES / MAY 20, 2017 3:46 PM EST
Is that the temperature of exact freezing through a dodgy electronic thermometer?

/ MAY 19, 2017 9:49 PM EST
*sighs* Unfortunately, the ultimate way is to get someone new. Yes. You can never really let go of that someone. I mean, depends on how you lost him/her? If it's related to friends/family, you may or may not be able to let go. But if it's love, finding someone new is just the way to go. Personally, the memories of that someone will always linger but you kinda put it aside when your priorities change from that someone to the next person.

UNITED STATES / MAY 16, 2017 12:10 PM EST


UNITED STATES / MAY 16, 2017 9:47 AM EST
I see your point

UNITED STATES / MAY 16, 2017 9:18 AM EST
You learn from it You use it as a learning experience dont let go remember and use it as a reference live your life and prove to them that you're amazing If they died live life for both of you if you broke up show them what they lost but dont dwell on it. Not only show them what they lost but show your self how much better you deserve and prove to your self you are amazing.

UNITED STATES / MAY 15, 2017 2:08 AM EST
You never, ever do. Human life is just the sum of your experiences. You are like a big wall made up of bricks; each brick is a person you have met or an experience you have had. The only solution is to meet more people and do more things. Then, the bricks related to the person you are trying to forget become a smaller percentage of "you".

TURKEY / MAY 15, 2017 11:51 AM EST
If someone has died, try to understand that although nothing can bring them back that they have never really left you since you haven't forgotten about them. In terms of letting a friend or ex leave you, remember it's for the best. Things weren't/aren't/won't work out and that there are tonnes of new things around the corner. Even if you don't want to forget about the old times, understand everyone must grow and change.

FRANCE / MAY 13, 2017 12:55 PM EST
By letting them go

UNITED STATES / MAY 13, 2017 12:49 PM EST
go be with friends and take a shot for me

UNITED STATES / MAY 12, 2017 4:27 PM EST
go be with friends and take a shot for me

UNITED STATES / MAY 12, 2017 4:27 PM EST
It is very difficult... try a change of scenery, listen to music, think about yourself and your future.. if you really love them don't let go. Good luck !

UNITED STATES / MAY 12, 2017 9:51 AM EST
How are you?

UNITED STATES / MAY 10, 2017 9:02 AM EST
klop

UNITED KINGDOM / MAY 10, 2017 6:12 AM EST
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UNITED STATES / MAY 9, 2017 11:05 AM EST


UNITED STATES / MAY 9, 2017 10:16 AM EST
Fall in love with someone.

UNITED STATES / MAY 8, 2017 12:39 PM EST
klop

UNITED KINGDOM / MAY 7, 2017 9:40 AM EST
Time. Sounds cliche but seriously, there really is no other way. Losing someone is going to hurt less and less with time. ...probably the last thing you want to hear, but I can tell you from experience it's true. I've lost a mother, father, a fiance (the love of my life), grandparents, and more loved ones. I was miserable after each loss. However, I am happy today because...you simply learn to continue. You have to. There is no "quick fix" that lessens the pain of losing someone.

UNITED STATES / MAY 5, 2017 1:21 AM EST


UNITED STATES / MAY 5, 2017 9:07 PM EST
Closure

UNITED STATES / MAY 5, 2017 6:26 PM EST
youtube.com/watch?v=x7Px1guZ_nE

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UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 12:42 PM EST
f u c k

UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 12:40 PM EST
¿

UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 12:40 PM EST
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UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 12:40 PM EST
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UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 12:36 PM EST
This is a really hard question to answer, but I guess just easing conversation with them...

FRANCE / MAY 2, 2017 11:34 AM EST
You find something else to latch onto

UNITED STATES / MAY 2, 2017 11:04 AM EST
Kill them.

UNITED STATES / MAY 1, 2017 7:37 PM EST
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UNITED STATES / MAY 1, 2017 11:44 AM EST
You push them off a bridge

UNITED STATES / MAY 1, 2017 11:43 AM EST
You need to find something positive in your life that makes you happy and concentrate on that. Then go out with dates with other people and you will soon find out that it was a good decision and you'll be much happier.

UNITED STATES / APR 30, 2017 4:48 AM EST
It's going to take time. I learned this the hard way. It took me ages to realize that if they didn't care about me I didn't need to care about them. I could have been doing so much and I let my mind wander to them. That wasn't fair to myself, so that's when I let go. Start by finding a way to give yourself closure. Look at all the reasons why you shouldn't stay and then toss the thought away. At some point, you'll become numb to the pain. Then it won't hurt so much anymore.

CANADA / APR 29, 2017 2:45 PM EST
Just push them off the cliff

CHINA / APR 28, 2017 10:20 AM EST
True love

UNITED STATES / APR 27, 2017 11:54 PM EST
Thanks for coirunbtting. It's helped me understand the issues.

TURKEY / APR 27, 2017 5:58 AM EST
Get out of your house, party, meet with friends, talk to them. Try not to be alone with your thoughts. Just try to have fun and cry when you need to.

UNITED STATES / APR 26, 2017 10:31 PM EST
Here’s some cao2;pns…iWet17;re giving away the farm starting December 22…if we’re all still here!Lets see what Santa is going to do about THIS!!The world is going to end? Then we have NOTHING to lose!

RUSSIAN FEDERATION / APR 26, 2017 3:17 PM EST
do your best to focus on someone else

UNITED STATES / APR 26, 2017 12:29 PM EST
Just try to be happy and eventually time heals all wounds. Surround yourself with friends and love

UNITED STATES / APR 25, 2017 1:36 PM EST
Wow, tricky pne. I think you need to confront them, shut the door completely if you know what i mean. And stay away from them. And try to replace them. Yeah that pretty much what worked for me. Hope it'll go smooth. Good luck!!

UNITED STATES / APR 23, 2017 8:09 AM EST
Hh

UNITED STATES / APR 22, 2017 8:07 PM EST
f

UNITED STATES / APR 19, 2017 6:08 PM EST
Know that you deserve better

UNITED STATES / APR 18, 2017 12:49 PM EST


UNITED STATES / APR 17, 2017 4:36 PM EST
and change

UNITED STATES / APR 17, 2017 12:54 PM EST
Kill them.

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UNITED STATES / APR 5, 2017 3:14 PM EST
let go

UNITED STATES / APR 3, 2017 9:54 AM EST
It's difficult but it has to be done sometimes, rip it off like a bandaid. The pain doesn't last as long as you'd think

UNITED STATES / APR 3, 2017 6:20 AM EST
Idk

UNITED STATES / APR 1, 2017 6:12 AM EST
Open your hand.

UNITED STATES / MAR 23, 2017 5:39 AM EST
u find someone else

/ JAN 15, 2012 1:46 PM EST
well when they are the only thing u think of all day and u even dream about them,the fight should be wroth it. but not in my case.

THE UNITED STATES / SEP 25, 2009 8:17 PM EST
physically leave

THE UNITED STATES / AUG 30, 2009 11:09 PM EST
fart on em

THE UNITED STATES / DEC 4, 2008 12:36 PM EST
don't be selfish.

THE UNITED STATES / NOV 14, 2006 4:30 PM EST
open your arms and let thm walk away, if u r ready tht is!!

THE UNITED KINGDOM / JUL 26, 2006 8:40 PM EST
If you haven't bothered crying yet, do so now. Just lie down and cry for as long as you need to. It's all uphill from there.

CANADA / JUL 16, 2006 11:35 PM EST
loosen your grip before you push them over the cliff, that way, you won't go as well. at least you know for next time, love.

NEW ZEALAND / JUL 12, 2006 12:57 PM EST
find yourself.

/ JUN 18, 2006 1:42 PM EST
Wait for a quiet night and then run an acid bath or see if there is a little room under that patio he built last year...

THE UNITED KINGDOM / APR 24, 2006 7:09 PM EST
fall in luv with sum1 else. or @ least pretend 2 b in luv wiv a celeb 2 ur frends, and ull find u do like dem after a while. it worked 4 me... now im married 2 1! hehehe

/ APR 9, 2006 2:05 PM EST
Aaah why do I have to answer this question to be able to see the answer! :-) Maybe let go by finding someone else and removing links to the person in question

SINGAPORE / DEC 12, 2005 10:47 AM EST
open your hand

THE UNITED STATES / NOV 11, 2005 1:30 AM EST
" i don't like u, good bye" (it would be nice to have a date ready and waiting when ur gonna do this)

/ NOV 10, 2005 8:48 PM EST
some of these answers are pretty good

IRELAND / OCT 26, 2005 6:40 PM EST
open your hands, this loosens the grasp, then they fall awaaaaaaaay....

THE UNITED STATES / OCT 20, 2005 11:24 AM EST
snort the blue pills and dont stop popping the red pills!

THE UNITED STATES / OCT 7, 2005 6:38 PM EST
cut them off from your life completely.

THE UNITED STATES / SEP 17, 2005 11:28 AM EST
Take your Hands from around their windpipe.

THE UNITED KINGDOM / AUG 31, 2005 11:43 AM EST
You have to understand how much they have hurt you first.

THE UNITED KINGDOM / AUG 9, 2005 3:39 PM EST
ninja smoke bombs have always worked for me.

BRAZIL / AUG 3, 2005 2:49 PM EST
unleash

THE NETHERLANDS / JUL 29, 2005 7:31 AM EST
unleash

THE NETHERLANDS / JUL 29, 2005 7:31 AM EST
Open your hand.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 27, 2005 3:45 PM EST
Value yourself more than they do.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 26, 2005 9:44 PM EST
It's hard. Look for a book called Cutting the Ties that Bind. Try to find what you are looking for in them within yourself.

THE UNITED KINGDOM / JUL 22, 2005 10:47 AM EST
emo

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 21, 2005 2:27 AM EST
Time and patience.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 16, 2005 1:40 PM EST
best way to get over someone....is to get under someone else

CANADA / JUL 15, 2005 12:59 PM EST
move on...

THE NETHERLANDS / JUL 13, 2005 7:31 AM EST
alcohol and lots of it...

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 12, 2005 9:09 PM EST
A chainsaw

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 12, 2005 8:02 PM EST
open hands

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 10:52 PM EST
Take a deep breath, and realize loving them may require you to let them go. IT'S NOT EASY!

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 9:34 PM EST
as gently as possible

AUSTRALIA / JUL 5, 2005 8:33 PM EST
When that someone's behaviour begins to hinder my spirit and you wind up spending way too much time trying to make excuses for them. You must decide just how much of your power and energy are you willing to allow that person to drain from you. There might come a time when they have drained so much that you don't have enough to fight off a simple cold.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 8:10 PM EST
why would you want to do that?

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 8:08 PM EST
The best way is slowly so you don't much notice the tearing away.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 8:07 PM EST
Press the Red Button.

THE UNITED STATES / JUL 5, 2005 8:07 PM EST