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I'm a freshman girl. I really like this guy, but he's a junior. We're friends, but I'm not permanently "frend-zoned" and I think he might like me back. My parents are fine with dating but the age gap might be a problem. Please don't tell me older guys only date younger girls for sex. He's not like that. I just want to know your opinion of a possible relationship with him?

UNITED STATES / OCT 4, 2018 2:48 PM EST



Hmm

UNITED STATES / OCT 4, 2018 6:45 PM EST
Probably try and go into it with a open mind and be very careful. Older guys can be great as they're more mature, respectful etc. But he still is a junior, so there is still the worry that it might not end well. As long as you go into with this kind of mind-set then there's no reason to not go for it, and just see how it goes. If it ever feels wrong then end it, but if it feels natural (to both of you) then a freshman and junior isn't so odd.

UNITED STATES / OCT 4, 2018 3:51 PM EST
you're a freshman and he's a junior. that's only 2 years apart. How is that a big age gap? That's normal. Now if you're like 8 years old who likes a junior, that would be a dream to a pedophile like the one that lurks on this site talking about having intercourse with 8 year olds. you're completely fine. Go for it!

UNITED STATES / OCT 4, 2018 3:10 PM EST
Stop role playing you old freak

CANADA / OCT 4, 2018 3:08 PM EST