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My boyfriend just told me that 6 months ago, a week after we became official, that he slept in the same bed as a girl who he says has slept around a lot, and she also asked him to break up his last relationship for her. I don't know how to proceed. Is this more than a betrayal of my trust? I also know that this would be a double standard too.

UNITED KINGDOM / OCT 11, 2018 5:25 PM EST



Do you swallow?

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2018 8:18 PM EST
I meant OVER, MEANS OVER. .WHY?? this guy you can never trust. forgive him?, then he knows he can get away with f'ing outside your relationship... I suggest you stop looking for hot, popular cool guys... look at intellectuals, science geeks, MAYBE an older guy (if he stays in good shape) those types will be so happy to have a cute, sexy girlfriend.. but not a guy who apologizes for everything, thats messed up in in a different way...

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2018 7:20 PM EST
Stop role playing old man

CANADA / OCT 11, 2018 7:15 PM EST
I don't know. Why is it a double standard?

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2018 7:12 PM EST
1) yes betrayal, 2) took too long before telling you, 3) he's still hung up on that other girl. This is biggest test you've ever faced, a serious life lesson. DO NOT PUNISH, WITHOUT HURTFUL WORDS, NO TEARS. NO HATE, YOU END IT. NO SECOND CHANCE ... HIS COMMITMENT TO YPU WAS ONLY UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER CAME ALONG... IT'S OVER... YOU DO NOT WAIT A WEEK & THEN FORGIVE.. OVER MEQNS OVER

UNITED STATES / OCT 11, 2018 7:12 PM EST