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My wife doesn’t feel connected when having sex. Is this normal for marriages? I’ve tried almost everything even getting her toys. But she doesn’t like the feel of the silicone. Thanks for any help.

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:06 PM EST

I'm not saying you have to noble to Oklahoma and join the Calvary 1st chapel church... find a church thatvypu are at ease with... but do a men's study 2× a week... it's got to be sincere if not... then ask it become sincere. Change yoyrs3lf... elevate your level of conciousness and often women are more attracted to that than any sexual performance ... I think this is because the foundation isn't a balanced 3 point foundation ... Change yourself... and she'll change

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 9:00 PM EST
Sounds like she's getting it somewhere else

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:55 PM EST
..either she will leave... or ahe will develop a new respect for you. The REAL issue isnt your size, thats her minds excuse. Probably you guys never had a strong enough spiritual foundation. You go work on yourself, change yourself by bringing God in and she will either leave or stay ... either way it will be for the better

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:55 PM EST
I really appreciate it.

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:54 PM EST
part3: the physical is the most obvious, not subtle, level. The spiritual level is opposite no outward indication it is real. But it is more powerful than level 1 or 2. So,here's the rules: a) no arguments, b) no accusations,c) you start a sincere spiritual transformatiin... like do a 2× bible study... don't ask her to go. As you change, the power if spiritual attraction will d3velop, even if SHE is hostile don't give up. Keep trying and

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:52 PM EST
Which level do you focus on the most or just focus on all of them

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:50 PM EST
Honestly my dick is big enough but I don’t last as long as I want to but I make up for it by going down on her. We both go to church.

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:49 PM EST
Part2. If you want to preserve the marriage you need to get busy and understand marriage has three levels of intimacy. Body/physical... mental/emotional... and 3rd is God/spiritual. If you want to bring her back, see part3

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:47 PM EST
Thats the reality.. so shes goung to wither convince gerself age needs an affair... or ... ahe haa alrwasy has/having an affair... when your marriage reaches this place... the only thing you can do is aerioualy, genuinely start going to church ... (see part 2 for rwason why)

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:45 PM EST
Hey... YOU BROUGHT THIS UP... be honest here? Doesn't feel connected? Bullshıt... Toys? How could rubber toys help her where you cant??... ohhh... ahhhahh... YOU didn't mention the real issue. She thinks your dick isn't big enough... hey doesn't matter what you think, SHE doesn't like the size.

UNITED STATES / SEP 12, 2018 8:42 PM EST