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This is pretty dressing a deep, but here goes. My wife recently cheated on me. I can tell she loves me, but she claims to have feelings for another guy. She didn’t physically cheat.. no more than one “meaningless kiss” and some cuddling, but the emotional cheating for months is soul crushing.. my question is, if we are both fully dedicated to fixing things and making them work, do you think we can ever have a happy marriage again?

UNITED STATES / OCT 7, 2018 2:11 AM EST



What is a Marruage?

UNITED STATES / OCT 8, 2018 7:13 AM EST
If I were you, I work on perfecting (read, constantly improving, not fanatic... more positive & easy going... but your goal is quietly improving yourself in body, mind and soul). Don't lecture her, don't tell her what or why your changing... leave room for her... it may take her a while to catch up with you)

UNITED STATES / OCT 7, 2018 2:46 AM EST
That's really the point, isn't it. Marriages work because both people believe there something greater than each other, than themselves that gives the marriage significance. It's pretty obvious you're willing to work at more than her... she needs to be a partner 50/50%

UNITED STATES / OCT 7, 2018 2:40 AM EST
On justcurious you learn 99% of everything here that asks for advice... are trolls. Assuming you're real... you better find some other foundation for your marruage, because whatever it is now is useless.

UNITED STATES / OCT 7, 2018 2:37 AM EST