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soh: Because many of us have learned to react to conflict with various controlling behaviors every relationship presents us with issues of rejection and engulfment. If one person gets angry, the other may feel rejected or controlled and get angry back, give themselves up, withdraw or resist. If one person shuts down, the other may feel rejected and become judgmental, which may trigger the other's fears of engulfment, and so on.

UNITED STATES / NOV 19, 2017 8:18 PM EST

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When I'm getting intimate with a lady and it jumps right to her wanting to have sex I get turned on and hard but when it comes time to actually have sex my erection dissipates fairly quickly, any idea what may cause this?

UNITED STATES / NOV 18, 2017 7:44 AM EST

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Why do you come here and say mean things to everyone and then get mad because we're mean to you?

UNITED STATES / NOV 15, 2017 8:37 PM EST

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haha, I've been running around without pants because I forgot my magic pants disappear like cinderella's dress

UNITED STATES / NOV 15, 2017 3:49 PM EST

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I started dating a new guy about 3 weeks ago. We had drunk sex, it was really great but he couldn't finish and after about 20 minutes i had to blow him. I thought it was because we were drunk but the next morning we had the same problem. Now we've had sex a total of 6 times and he still has not cum from sex! i have to finish him in my mouth. He was only sexually active with one girl before me. Is it just nerves? Maybe he doesn't find me attractive?

UNITED STATES / NOV 15, 2017 10:51 AM EST

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I recently hooked up with a girl I haven't seen in a long time. I took her home and had some outstanding sex with her. Amazing over the top incredible. I thought that would be the end of it but now she is blowing up my phone almost everyday. Unfortunately she is also a big fat pig and I don't want to be seen in public with her. I don't want to hurt her feelings because it will ruin any future booty calls. What should I do to avoid her but not piss her off?

UNITED STATES / NOV 13, 2017 3:50 PM EST

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It's so hard to link up with black people. You know. Cause they are !?

UNITED STATES / NOV 13, 2017 7:02 AM EST

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If you and this guy say you guys like eachother and hook up and everything but he still hasn't made it an official relationship even after you guys have talked about it, should I keep seeing the guy or what because I don't know what to do?

UNITED STATES / NOV 12, 2017 1:44 AM EST

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What's it like to have unconditional love? I've never been able to experience that. I'd basically like to live vicariously though you if you don't mind haha Tell me a story of what it's like to have parents who would move heaven and earth for you, friends who care about you because of who you are as a person, etc. What's falling/ being in love like? What about falling in "like"? Anything that involves one human caring for another unconditionally.

CANADA / NOV 12, 2017 10:13 PM EST

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Know anyone that is still hoarse from screaming at the sky because Trump was elected a year ago?

UNITED STATES / NOV 11, 2017 10:24 PM EST

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I am a female who happens to be a lesbian who also happens to be a bit kinky. I have recently been considering myself to be a dom, though I am still a virgin, just because the idea of being in control in the bedroom sounds so appealing. My question: if you can't assert yourself well but like control, are you just polite AND dominant or are you somewhat submissive? I commonly feel as if I can't say what I feel or make concise decisions because I don't want to impose on other's wants and needs.

UNITED STATES / NOV 11, 2017 8:00 PM EST

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There was no Flag Friday this week because the owner of GhostPoster is a lazy piece of garbage. Where am I supposed to find out about the world's most unique flags now?

UNITED STATES / NOV 10, 2017 8:11 PM EST

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So lets say you are with a guy and he has kids. You were only told about the oldest and then months later you see a picture of this baby and his sister online wishing the baby a happy birthday. I asked him about it and he said he never told me cause he didnt think it was his.. Am i wrong for not wanting anything to do with the kid. The others are fine. i enjoy time with them. But this baby. I just cant do..

UNITED STATES / NOV 7, 2017 1:07 PM EST

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I'm 13 and I am considering trying marijuana. I am confident that I will not form a habit of using marijuana, and I will use it very sparsely, almost never. I know consistent pot use is bad for adolescents, but can it one time cause any developmental damage at 13?

UNITED STATES / NOV 6, 2017 6:14 PM EST

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Trump doesn’t know anything or really believe anything about any topic beyond himself, because he has no interest in any topic beyond himself.

UNITED STATES / NOV 6, 2017 10:46 AM EST

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My love told me the secret of her life after getting married to me. However, the secret had been much painful then what it would have been if told earlier. At least I cant build my trust for her from now on because my IQ is much higher than my EQ. If anyone can suggest me a solution to this crisis.!

UNITED STATES / NOV 5, 2017 2:05 AM EST

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My girlfriend is tired of saying I love you and hearing she's beautiful. Is she loosing interest in me because I'm scared as hell.

UNITED STATES / NOV 5, 2017 8:49 PM EST

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Why do prepubescent boys in Enna, Italy call Steven Beerсock "the ventriloquist"? Because he sticks his hand up their arse then tells them to keep quiet.

UNITED STATES / NOV 3, 2017 3:13 PM EST

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My parents really appreciate the way I always take care of my kid sister's bath time. They think that I do this to allow them to relax at the end of the day. The truth is that I'm sexually abusing her during her bath time. I'm not doing anything wrong because she laughs and giggles when I fondle her. The problem is what do I do if the little bitch starts shooting her cake hole off. At what point is it still believable if I just say "the dirty little bitch just need a through clean up"?

UNITED STATES / NOV 2, 2017 12:06 PM EST

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Do you think that people suffer because of nіgger cunts? They are tempting God by making all people different in some way.I mean you have ugly nіggers nіggers' diseases, nіgger rapers,killer nіggers, nіgger criminals,nіgger terrorists and many more nіgger cunts.And do you think if one day nіggers vanish from existence,that all of those things will change?

UNITED STATES / NOV 2, 2017 7:00 AM EST

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